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ST Were you disappointed that Rey and Finn's relationship never became anything romantic?

Discussion in 'Sequel Trilogy' started by DarthVist, Sep 9, 2020.

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Were you disappointed that Rey and Finn's relationship never became anything romantic?

  1. Yes

    39 vote(s)
    38.2%
  2. No

    63 vote(s)
    61.8%
  1. DarthVist

    DarthVist Jedi Knight star 1

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    The Force Awakens did seem to be setting them up as a couple. But the sequels never did anything with it.
     
  2. Darth Buzz

    Darth Buzz Jedi Master star 4

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    No. She literally friend zoned him at the end of TFA, and both the actors said numerous times that it was like brother and sister. It never appeared anything resembling romantic to me. Buddies 4 life.
     
  3. Glitterstimm

    Glitterstimm Force Ghost star 6

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    There was a lot I found disappointing in the ST, but Rey's lack of romance (Kylo doesn't count, that's not romance) wasn't one of them. I think I would have enjoyed it if they'd gone that direction, but I also like the idea of her being a kind of monk like Luke and Obi-wan.

    If you make Finn her romantic interest, but not force sensitive, then that would be very interesting, because we'd see him try to be an emotional support for her as she learns the ways of the force. He'd be second fiddle in the bigger scope if the light vs dark story, but potentially a very interesting character. It must be hard to have a Jedi girlfriend!

    But if he was force sensitive that could have been very interesting as well, and I think you even have some spectacular conflicts between them.

    Overall, I was disappointed that there wasn't really any romance in the ST, but I don't have a strong preference over how it should have been.
     
  4. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    If (general) you aren’t “buddies”, good luck making any kind of romance last.

    I was disappointed that Rey had horrible taste and no self respect, yes. But I would have been OK with a romance with Finn or no romance with Finn, as long as Rey ended up a confident, non-shallow character who expects to be treated with kindness from the beginning of any potential romance.
     
  5. Daxon101

    Daxon101 Force Ghost star 6

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    Not really.
     
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  6. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Yeah, really. Ask any of us who have been married for a long time.
     
  7. ComfortablyNunb

    ComfortablyNunb Jedi Master star 3

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    Yes. I love romance in Star Wars -- Solo made me realize how much I missed it -- and I thought Daisy and John had great chemistry in TFA. I suppose he was friend-zoned, but that's what would make it more uplifting if they got together by the end of TROS. SW is fantasy after all!
     
  8. godisawesome

    godisawesome Skywalker Saga Undersheriff star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    I’ll say yes, since I’ll be blunt, after TLJ made the version of Reylo the films had a cancerous liability to Rey and sought to demote Finn to a side characters instead of male lead, having Rey and Finn as the romantic pairing would have at least insured neither would be as easily screwed up. It also, not un-coincidentally, would still have been the most developed romance Rey could have had of any remaining - the main problem Poe or a new character would have faced is that they hadn’t interacted with her at all yet.

    Finn would need some kind of role boost, and “romantic lead” would have done that, while simply making sure Rey wasn’t poisoned by being paired with Kylo after Johnson burned that bridge’s main appeal outside of Kylo fans willing to overlook the abusive nature of it... well, that would have been a gift of immeasurable value to her character arc - and maybe even Kylo/Ben, if they knew he had to be more than a paper-thin retread of better characters.
     
  9. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Sums up everything.
     
  10. Riv_Shiel

    Riv_Shiel Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I read the first two films as setting up a Rey/Finn romance (yep, even TLJ), so I was disappointed that it didn't go anywhere (then VERY disappointed about the Reylo kiss). The ST seemed very schizophrenic about romances. Maybe these two are a couple... and moving on.
     
  11. Jedi_Fenrir767

    Jedi_Fenrir767 Force Ghost star 4

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    The way Rey looked at Finn hovering over Rose seemed like it was supposed to be a call back to the OT Love Triangle setting up a resolution but apparently no one was interested in that. God what a mess these films are
     
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  12. Darth Buzz

    Darth Buzz Jedi Master star 4

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    Atleast there was no incest in the ST.
     
  13. MagnarTheGreat

    MagnarTheGreat Force Ghost star 5

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    Wouldn't have minded it. A lot of other options are better than what they actually pulled the lever on or pushed the button at the control console about especially after TFA - that's my disappointment and another emotion.
     
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  14. godisawesome

    godisawesome Skywalker Saga Undersheriff star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    I think that look was meant to be as ambiguous as possible - I don’t believe Johnson himself would have ever done Rey and Finn, or else he wouldn’t have created Rose and forbidden Rey and Finn from talking seemingly to specifically cut it off, and I think he was having Finn tend to Rose specifically out of a desire to try and say the Rey and Finn possibility was dead in his eyes... but I *do* think he left it ambiguous for the next guy.
     
  15. Merric

    Merric Jedi Master star 3

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    I actually liked the fact that their relationship was left ambiguous. In the first movie you could kinda tell they liked each other but you weren't too sure because they weren't sure, and it made their relationship interesting. I would have liked it if it was left that way throughout the whole trilogy. However I totally wouldn't have been against it if they ever did get together. Way better than Kylo Ren and Rey which is the textbook definition for abusive relationship.
     
  16. Def Trooper

    Def Trooper Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I liked the idea of it, but romance was far from my top priority for either of the characters. I thought TFA set them up fairly well, and even TLJ had the decency to at least give them a nice reunion (if nothing else), but sadly romance was handled about as well as anything else in this trilogy. Which is to say...not very.

    Rey and Finn would've definitely been worth pursuing as a sweet and wholesome couple though. It was refreshing to see a mainstream story portray a black man as being a caring person that loves someone enough to face his fears and lay down his life for her. Made some of Finn's more frustrating aspects a bit more bearable.
     
  17. LedReader

    LedReader Jedi Master star 4

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    No incest biologically speaking, but Rey Skywalker kissing essentially her adopted cousin/brother(being adopted by siblings is a weird thing in and of itself) is definitely at least a little sketchy.
     
  18. dagenspear

    dagenspear Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I never really was into them as a couple, but I felt like that was what TFA was doing, so, in spite of any misgivings I may have had at the time, what I'm more disappointed about, in retrospect, is that the movies weren't consistent with that. Rey and Finn, to me, were set up in TFA, so I expected that to continue going forward. I thought saddling her with, to me, were new love interests every movie, for this story and this character, didn't work, to me, and isn't strong writing, to me.
     
  19. DarthVist

    DarthVist Jedi Knight star 1

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    What does that mean?
     
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  20. I Are The Internets

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    I wanted them to be a couple, but at the same time, I'm not terribly disappointed. I've moved on.
     
  21. LedReader

    LedReader Jedi Master star 4

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    I thought they had good chemistry in TFA so I could see them as a potential couple, but I definitely didn’t have any particular investment in that possibility and so I’m not upset that it didn’t come to be. I will say that if they were a couple that would help avoid the ST’s head scratching take on romances in general as well the pitfalls with Finn being sidelined, but there were plenty of other ways to avoid those issues if they wanted.
     
  22. reyvision

    reyvision Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I thought Rey would end the series alone, and well... she does. But if there had to be an endgame romance for Rey, then Finn/Rey was the best option they had. They had a healthy, happy mutual friendship that could've easily lead to more. Their friendship (along with Finn/Poe's friendship) was the best aspect of the trilogy for me. Rey's belonging and found family is a bunch of dead mentors and Finn. At least Finn's still alive.
     
  23. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    I was responding to “not really” being thrown up in response to “if you aren’t ‘buddies’, good luck in making a romance last.”

    There is no long-lasting healthy romance without friendship.
     
  24. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    Voted "no" in the poll. After watching TFA, I thought that the ST was laying the groundwork for a Rey/Finn romance and I would've been cool with that. They had a great dynamic to me, and I loved the moment when Rey hugged Finn after he came back to rescue her when she'd been captured by the First Order. Also, it would've been very positive representation to have a white woman have a romance with a black guy on the big screen since that it is still very underrepresented in media in my humble opinion. So, probably if I wanted Rey to have a romance, I most wanted it to be with Finn and believed it should've been with Finn.

    At least that's how I felt after TFA. After TLJ, when Rose kissed Finn, I thought that would be the romantic relationship the ST was going with for Finn, and I was reasonably happy with it (nice to have the first interracial kiss in a major Star Wars film) but then the book Resistance Reborn made it clear that Rose and Finn were no longer in a relationship, so I figured that might have been to clear the path for a Rey romance with Finn, yet that turned out not to be the case. Instead it was mainly done so Rose didn't get to go on any real adventures with Rey, Finn, and Poe and instead would be left at Resistance headquarters. So, after TLJ, I was just disappointed that kiss had no narrative followup in TROS. I feel like the ST shouldn't have had Rose kiss Finn if nothing was going to come of that. Especially because TROS doesn't do anything on the Rey/Finn front, so really there was no narrative need to breakup Finn and Rose.

    I would've been okay with a Rey/Poe romance as well if they spent more time together prior to TROS.

    I also would've been more than okay with Rey ending up by herself and not in any romantic relationship at all since I think that Hollywood in general oversells romance especially in regard to teenagers and young women. It is relatively rare to have Hollywood acknowledge that people often don't find their true love in their teens or even necessarily in their twenties, and that is absolutely fine. It's also rare for Hollywood to recognize that romance isn't the be and end all for many young women and that many young women can be perfectly happy outside a romantic relationship. Not everyone wants a fairy tale romance. So, I like it when a heroine especially one in her teens or twenties, ends up single and not needing a man to fulfill or complete her, but just being strong and self-assured on her own. So, I'm happy that Rey ended the ST not in a romance with anyone.

    What was disappointing to me was the Rey/Kylo romance that developed in TLJ and continued in TROS, culminating with the TROS kiss that managed to be less feminist in my opinion than Sleeping Beauty or Snow White, and it's bad when your movie made in the twenty-first century depicting the first female Jedi protagonist of a main saga film manages to be less feminist than animated versions of fairy tales produced in the 1950's and 1930's respectively. So words really can't convey how disappointing that was to me.

    In a nutshell? No, I wasn't disappointed that Rey didn't end up with Finn. I would have been fine if she ended up with Finn, but I'm happy that she ended up single and strong. What was disappointing was her romance and kiss with Kylo. That is what leaves a lingering, bitter taste in my mouth.
     
  25. MagnarTheGreat

    MagnarTheGreat Force Ghost star 5

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    And Kylo Ben dying doesn’t get them out of it. We all know if he lived what would’ve continued, so the story is marred for all eternity.

    Back to Finn, at least a deeper connection with Rey would’ve given that character something to do after TFA other than turning him into the just the guy who yells her name a lot in the last movie but doesn’t have a payoff (nor was the new direction with Rose in the prior movie paid off.)