A 17 year old girl who's never been kissed?! Call the papers!

Thank you Nader. I will now officially have nightmares for the next 13 years!

 

Sorry, Ariana, I checked the index to the Laws of Life, and the law I mentioned was actually amended to state that only deformed women 30 and over can never have a man attracted to them.

So the law does not apply to you.

As for myself, I suppose I should get started on my new role as Miss Havisham...

 

Hey, as long as Compeyson didn't stand you up at your wedding, you're doing a heck of a lot better than Miss Havisham!

Can you tell we just read this book in AP English?

 

I dont remember my first kiss really well. My first time I had sex was not anything fantastic on acount of me being very young. My daughters were born a month after I turned 18. Now im a 21 year old with two kids. Its amazing I dont have more and an S.T.D. So dont rush things ok?

 

Well, im looking for a job this summer.............hmmmmmmmm

 

I have kissed women over 30 before, and would again given the opportunity.

What do you 'kiss-vigins' consider a kiss? Does a peck on the lips count, or does it have to be open mouth?

 

FlareStorm, I've been kissed on the lips before (that's how they greet people in Spain -- kind of shocking the first time it happens to you!) I believe we were discussing being an open mouth kiss-virgin. Or, that's what I meant, anyway.

 

As cool as it is to admit it, I wasn't 'kissed (in the newly refined context) at 17 either.
Relax Ariana, life is much longer and slower than you can imagine right now and there's plenty of time for it to happen.
You'll get 'kissed' and there will be a lucky guy on the other end.

 

I can't stand this!

I get married, and next thing I know there are all these hot girls here looking to make out! What gives?

I wouldn't worry about it... wait till you find someone special. It'll happen. Unless you're living in the middle of nowhere and the nearest living being is a few days drive and they are bigger jerks then I am...

 

You shouldn't get so worked up about this sort of thing.

It's just a kiss.

Not that I speak from any personal experiance mind you....
19 years old here, 20 soon.

I don't understand the waiting to kiss, I mean, I can see waiting for more serious kissing for someone special, but really, it's not that big of a deal. Don't look for it to be perfect, or it never will be.

This is a kind of thing that if you're not relaxed and in the moment then it'll suck.

My advice, if you like you boyfriend, and want to stay with him even after he goes away, maybe you should kiss him at the airport or where ever. It's simply meant as a way to show someone how you feel, and if you really like him, why not just kiss him?

 

*Amidst the chaos, Shorty runs around grunting and yelling like Eddie Vedder did on the end of Jeremy* AAAAWWW AWWW! AWWW AWW! AWWWW AWWW YEEEAAHEAH! ARRRGHH ARGHHH ARGHHH ARGHHH ARRGHHHAR GHHHHAR!

 

Hello, I'm a (straight) 20 year old guy who has never kissed, held hands, gone on a date or done anything even remotely beyond platonic with a girl. I'm really depressed about that actually...

Yours

 

Don't worry. you will get someone one day.

 

All these people that have never been kissed. Either the perception that most people around have been kissed by the time they're 18 is wrong or all the people that haven't been kissed spend too much time online. (Which is either the cause or effect)

Hmmm.....

 

Well, I'm 15 and never had a girlfriend or been kissed. I probably could have had/done both by now if I'd chosen to, but I'm waiting.

 

I've never been kissed, and I'm not a 17 year old girl!
Alert the media

 

hmm there is a scary frequency of kiss-virgins here! Could there be a correlation between star wars and not getting any action?

All signs point to yes.

Im outta here

 

I dunno, I think we're better on an average than Star Trek fans. This thread would be bursting to the brim there.

 

not on this end. I have to beat back the girls with a stick. view my gorgeous pic here:
http://jedi.net/theHunter.jpg

 

I've never even had a proper conversation with a girl for more than 5 minutes and I'm 19 almost. So there.

 

Don't feel bad Ariana. I am 18 and I had a boyfriend for over a year, and I STILL haven't been kissed.

 

lol, I said I could easily have a g/f or have been kissed, but I choose not to. It's got nothing to do with SW!

 

"What do you 'kiss-vigins' consider a kiss? Does a peck on the lips count, or does it have to be open mouth?"

Well, let me put it this way. When I was five the girl next to me in gym class dared my best friend (a guy) to kiss me. I was wearing a shirt with little black bows on the shoulders. He kissed one of the bows making as little comtact as possible. I don't count that.

I say I'd count anything on the lips because I've never been kissed on the lips by anyone.

 

To all the people out there who may be worried about the "kiss thing", I say to you, don't worry about it at all.

There are many things to life, so many much more important things that it is really a pretty small issue. Also, kissing is overrated, to certain extent. For all the kissing I have done, if I could put a caring, wonderful, loving relationship in it's place, I would.

That is not to say that I didn't enjoy kissing, and don't enjoy it now, but I put more stock in a strong relationship between two people that all the kisses in the world. Of course, now, I experience both and it IS nice.

So, finally, think with your hearts, not your lips. And take care!

 

I did not kiss a girl until I was 19, and have not kissed one since.