main
side
curve

ST Kylo Ren/Adam Driver Discussion Thread

Discussion in 'Sequel Trilogy' started by Pro Scoundrel , Jan 3, 2020.

Tags:
  1. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012
    It’s so woke telling the women in the audience that it’s their job to fix the abusive and violent men in their lives because the gods demand it.
     
  2. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    @alwayslurking
    In the movie we got

    "My mother was the daughter of Vader. Your father was the son of the Emperor. What Palpatine doesn't know is we're a dyad in the Force, Rey. Two that are one."
    ―Kylo Ren

    "The lifeforce of your bond... a dyad in the Force. A power like life itself. Unseen for generations. And now... the power of two restores the one, true Emperor."
    ―Palpatine

    In the Secrets of the Sith book:

    Then we got the out of universe perspective from Terrio in the Skywalker Legacy documentary:

    Which is probably based on this quote from Joseph Campbell

    Joseph Campbell, "The Hero's Journey: Joseph Campbell on His Life and Work"


     
  3. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

    Registered:
    Mar 4, 2011
    How do those quotes dispute any of what we have been saying?

    On the last—I’m married, and I agree to a point with what Campbell has said, but if my husband knocked me unconscious, strapped me down and told me he could take whatever he wanted on our first meeting, murdered his father in front of me, then stalked me all over the planet, including ripping a necklace off my neck—no way in any iteration of hell would he be my husband. So I don’t even know how that quote applies to what we see in the ST.

    In a way the narrative feels like gaslighting:

    Being stalked for eternity is comforting. Being trapped is comforting. It is actually good to enter romances with homicidal maniacs who torture you and it is bad to enter romances with nice people who treat you well.

    And it’s gaslighting that I actively push back against. I will not view a negative as a positive and enter an upside down morality where bad is good and good is bad just because some of the writers prefer it.
     
  4. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    I don't know whether the dyad is a curse since Rey and Kylo is the only example we have so far. If we have more examples of dyad having similar fates than Rey and Kylo, then I would believe the connection is a curse. Plus, the way people and characters talk about it, it looks more like it's the "real thing" and the rule of 2 is just a pale imitations of the potential of those in a dyad relationship.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
  5. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012


    Fixed a few things for you... for accuracy sake.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
  6. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    With the way she kissed him, it seems she was no longer uncomfortable around him by that point in the story and then her thinking of the "incredible oneness" and how half of her has been "ripped away". Yep, doesn't seem like she was under a curse at all, imo, quite the opposite.
     
  7. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

    Registered:
    May 18, 2017
    "Joseph Campbell (which we name drop whenever we want to sound intelligent")
    [face_laugh]
     
  8. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012
    This is some next level creepy stuff. She finally feels at one with the murderer who's been trying to murder her for 3 movies. She soul is now halved because the psycho is dead.

    I don't think you realize just how creepy this is.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
  9. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

    Registered:
    May 18, 2017
    I just watched Pride and Prejudice last night. Now Mr. Darcy is a bad boy, a bit aloof and awkward and perhaps rude. Kylo is just a killer. There's a big difference. It would be like Padme being attracted to Anakin after Mustafar. Disney tried to go all fan fictiony with the forbidden romance thing.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
  10. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012
    Nah. It would be like insisting that Padme was attracted to the person who spent 3 movies trying to murder her; Palpatine.

    The oneness of their soul. I hope she can save him.
     
  11. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

    Registered:
    Mar 4, 2011
    Indeed. I’m not sure how a description of Rey as having fewer brain cells than a jellyfish, which leads her to think Stockholm Syndrome is a love potion created by Merope Gaunt—and think that is a positive to be celebrated—is either not creepy, or somehow a better portrayal of her character than being under a curse.
     
  12. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    Heh, I've seen worse and more melodramatic dialogue and Kylo, to me, has never been a convincing villain so I don't have the same disgust you have about them ending up together, even though that's not the story that I wanted at the time, that's what we got and I accepted it. In fact, I didn't believe into the First Order faction as the main villains for a long time, Resistance helped me understand a lot of things about it.

    I prefer keeping an open mind and wait until there is new story that change my opinion of the character which is exactly what happened with Kylo from my perspective. I have now a new appreciation of the character even if he's still not one of my favorite, and Adam Driver's performance in subsequent films is a major reason of my new appreciation.

    To me, an actor's performance can make or break a story for me. You can have the best character and story ever on paper, if it doesn't translate well on-screen, I won't buy it.
    Thankfully, in the case Kylo it worked for me.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
    Watcherwithin likes this.
  13. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012
    You personally don't see him as a 'convincing' villain - whatever means - because in order for you to romanticize him, he can't be a villain.

    Here's unconvincing lover boy vowing to a villain. Just in case you were wondering where the villain part was. And this was after their date where she wore make up and shipped herself in a box so that she can save his soul, I mean...date him.
    [​IMG]
     
  14. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    His last appearance in that movie has him on his knees, head down. He replaced Snoke as the Supreme Leader, he finally had all the power that he wanted and yet this is how we left him, looking defeated in his moment of triumph. Nope, still not buying it.

    I originally thought he would be redeemed in that movie but I was pleasantly surprised by RJ's choice to make him the new leader and wanted to see how they were going to wrap up his story in TROS.

    I didn't expect such a short time jump, thus making it the trilogy with the shortest time span which might explain why there's not as much story during the time of the ST as there was for the PT and the OT.
     
    Watcherwithin likes this.
  15. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

    Registered:
    Nov 21, 2012
    His last 30 seconds in a 7 hour movie has him mute and never apologizes to Rey for spending that 7 hours abusing her and trying to murder her.

    Actually … that sounds like the most villainous thing he could do
     
  16. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

    Registered:
    Mar 4, 2011
    As I said earlier in this discussion—if you don’t view him or his behavior as evil, of course you would not have a problem with them ending up together.

    As far as keeping an open mind:

    —I found Kylo interesting until TLJ and until the Reylo talk started. I’ve hated him since. Being told that I am supposed to like him, supposed to view him as a co-protagonist, and if I don’t, I am supposed to change my standards, was a turnoff.

    —I am open to new material which would lead to sympathy for Kylo, but it has to be sympathetic by my standards—not because Adam Driver plays him and not because a creator tells me that “everyone can relate” to Kylo (and if we can’t we’re chopped liver I guess)
     
  17. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    I try not to let fandom discourses affect my enjoyment of fiction, though it's a lot harder to do when I'm more invested into the fandom and I myself got involved into some heated debates which was exhausting but instructive when users don't act as if their interpretation is the absolute truth and no others exist. Of course, if I ever change my opinion on characters, relationships or the story I also expect to change it on MY terms, through rewatch. I hope new stories will focus more on Ben Solo rather than the Kylo Ren persona
     
  18. starfish

    starfish Chosen One star 5

    Registered:
    Oct 9, 2003
    Ben Solo and Kylo Ren are the same person, there’s no persona about it
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022
  19. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

    Registered:
    Mar 4, 2011
    TLJ and Johnson’s commentary on it would have made me hate Kylo even without the fandom Reylo discourse, and rewatch would not change my take there (I’ve seen TLJ twice) and the comic and Lego Terrifying Tales just reaffirmed my opinion.

    That said—I did like the Ben Solo in the Han memory scene and just before it. If we had three movies of that Ben Solo, without the ‘I torture and murder people but I make pouty faces so like me anyway’ persona, I would be a fan of both him and the Reylo relationship,

    At this point the only thing that would move the needle towards sympathy for Kylo would be an as yet unrevealed actual tragedy in his background (actual tragedy, not first world problems). I don’t know that I can ever like Rey again or view her as having even a modicum of intelligence though.
     
  20. HevyDevy

    HevyDevy Chosen One star 5

    Registered:
    Apr 13, 2011
    Only Ben Solo does one selfless act in resurrecting Rey.
    And yes, he knew he was going to die. He just let go. Saying he thought he would “own” Rey is biased head canon.
     
    Watcherwithin likes this.
  21. starfish

    starfish Chosen One star 5

    Registered:
    Oct 9, 2003
    what, how does that suggest they are two different people?
     
  22. HevyDevy

    HevyDevy Chosen One star 5

    Registered:
    Apr 13, 2011
    When did Kylo ever do anything completely selfless? Not literally two different people however.
     
  23. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

    Registered:
    Mar 4, 2011
    “Everyone can relate to Kylo” sets up the premise that we are supposed to be biased in favor of him, so based on that, of course taking evidence from his actions over the course of three films and drawing the conclusion that his act was just another way of taking whatever he wants (because he feels entitled) looks like “bias”.
     
    wobbits likes this.
  24. HevyDevy

    HevyDevy Chosen One star 5

    Registered:
    Apr 13, 2011
    That was a stupid opinion on RJ and KK’s part, agreed. Kylo is a fascist, I would hope people don’t relate to that. But I think ignoring the contrast with Ben is missing the point.

    Ben didn’t act entitled there at all, he was there to help, no longer demanded the saber from Rey (“That saber, it belongs to me!” vs Rey sensing his change and sending it to him for free to take out the KOR), and he would rather he died than Rey. He is aware of what it takes to resurrect her. It’s why he smiles - Rey doesn’t get it but Ben knows he is about to die.
     
    Watcherwithin likes this.
  25. Ancient Whills

    Ancient Whills Chosen One star 6

    Registered:
    Jun 12, 2011
    I don't have to relate to him, just understanding his motivations and what make him click would be enough for me. If I end up rooting for him by the end of it, it would be icing on the cake.
    Sure, there are but Kylo is hiding behind the helmet for a reason and obviously he's struggling to live up to the expectations of not only himself but also of his master who is not fooled by his acting tough guy routine. He's basically a child in a mask like Snoke stated.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2022