So, I need an opinion regarding older women and sex.

Like those new-fangled bras that strap around the knees instead of across the back....

 

You'd be okay, that generally doesn't happen to women until late forties as the earliest.

What I was alluding earlier is that women at this age are more confident, unihinibited and while they'd be all up for just sex maybe, if you found one that wanted to go backwards in experience, it would be doubtful. Women this age have had older, more confident men in their late thirties and fourties. Contrary to popular belief, men get better with age when it comes to that. Then when you've gotten your need for older women out of the way, you're going to be expecting the same sex with a younger woman who will more than like be more inhibited, more subconcious,etc. Generally speaking of course, not everyone is alike.

 

Oh, I wouldn't be too sure about that. I saw this one issue of national geographic with this tribal woman about in her 30s....looked like she was growin flippers out of her chest.....

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EDIT--anyways, back on topic. I dont see the logic behind seeking out much older women. At least with someone around your own age, if you develop a lasting relationship, the sex would have to be better as you learn what each other likes and will form a more perfect compliment.

 

is making fun of age cause for banning?

if so, take 'em over your knee and spank them with the ban stick. thnx.

 

There are a few sides to this.

Rhonda, you are very much correct. More mature, experienced women will blow his mind away, in so many ways. Women on this level tend to know exactly what they want, and exactly what they need. They also know exactly how to get it. Now they also appreciate what a younger man has to offer, but what he has to offer isn't much more than youth. And that only goes so far.

Now when he moves on to younger, less experienced women, he may be a bit more experienced, but he will expect too much. Yes as rumsmuggler said, he can use his experience towards the younger woman, but a younger woman may not even know what she wants at this point in her life, sexually. The knowledge he gains may be beneficial, but it's most likely beneficial to a woman that knows herself like a more experienced woman does; and what may work on her may not work at all on a less expereinced woman.

Honestly, from my experience, the two are completely different, and what works on one won't work on the other. Your own experience, no matter the age will be your own best benefit.

Also, each woman is not the same as the next. What works on one will not work on the next. Be humble and try to learn. Learn her. Don't let your ego get in the way. Be open minded and not set in your ways. Remember giving is more important than receiving (and apply that philosophy to your attitude). When you learn this, it will be much better for you in the receiving department.

 

That's what I've been looking for.




Thanks.

 

If you're expecting your relationships to be like those in American Pie, you're not ready for one.

 

STIFLER'S MOM! STIFLER'S MOM!

 

If you're honest about your expectations, and of course use protection, I don't see why this would be a problem.

 

older girls may have more experience, but who's to say if that experience is the good kind that makes them enjoyable in the sack, or just a lot of excess baggage?

 

I don't think it's a bad idea at all to have a plan like that, as long as these women are unattatched, and you are very sure you are able to keep your emotions out of it. When it comes to married women, I'm sure there are plenty of older women in unhappy marriages that would love a liason with a younger "no strings attatched" guy, but I'd seriously stay away from situations like this. Even if she seems to agree that it's just about sex, things could end up getting nasty.

Here is why I think that it's not bad to have a plan like this. I wish I had dated more guys (and had more fun, period!) back in college. You can't get those years back. I'm a very happily married woman now, and in a lot of ways it's good that I only had one boyfriend before I met my husband (less broken hearts, less mr. wrongs to deal with) but on the other hand, look at all the experiences I missed.

So good luck in whatever you do, and keep the degree your're going for the real priority!

 

I'm going to jump in with my two cents here. I am a senior in college, soon to be graduated, and I think I have a pretty good handle on the dynamics of college relationships. Although I think its great that you have started thinking about what you want before you get to college, let me tell you that all of that will most likely change once you get there.

Are you really going to pass up a crowd of girls your age to go looking for something that will be pretty impossible to find? I came into college saying that I would NEVER date a younger guy, and I almost passed up someone I really love because of it. Most of the girls I knew my freshmen year were looking for guys, to seriously date them or just casual hook-ups, whether they were willing to admit it or not.

My advice is to not discard girls your age because you perceive them as inexperienced. Meet a lot of people- you will meet a lot of great friends, girls and guys, in the first few weeks, and if you miss that opportunity you will always regret it. And also, dont think that it will be easy to jump into a serious relationship after you've been in a casual one too long. It sounds great in theory, but habits are hard to break. And one more thing- having an experienced partner does not make for automatically great sex. Being with a younger girl that you have real feelings for can be just as good. Experience means nothing if the girl you're with isn't compatible to the ones you've been with before. (ok, maybe not nothing, but you get my point. )

Good luck with your endeavors in college, and never forget to have the best time of your life. And if you dont mind my asking, where are you going to college?

 

This plan is foolproof!

 

Quite simply, yes.





...pervert.

 

I've noticed a lot of women have regreted, in one way or another, by not "sewing their wild oats". Usually the result is not good when they get in their later 20's/early 30's. Not trying to be the advice Dr. here, or even worthy of giving any, but from what I've seen -

Girls!: Get it out of your system (and don't get pregnant in the process) before you decide to settle down! Everybody's happier that way in the long run!

 

Well you are an ambitious one! Good for you. Unfortunatley your chances of being a successful mil* hunter are a bit low since you are not old enough to drink at bars. Every town has a bar where middle aged lonely people hangout. YOu could hunt there. Also try late 30's or early 40's.

BTW: I hope these girls don't remind you of your mother, that would be wierd.

Wai that brings up a good idea, you need to find a trashy and emeshed family where the mom and daughter are really close and try to get with the mom and the daughter at the same time.

 

bountyhunter2999, you have all these plans, and that's fine... But sometimes, life doesn't go according to plan. And that's especially true where relationships/love/lust are involved. As another poster mentioned, you're at a young age and you're going off to college. Life's going to change. A lot. You're going to change. A lot.

It's fine to formulate plans, and it's great that you are thinking ahead and plan to be honest with yourself and your partner(s). But it's possible you'll click immediately with a girl your own age. It's also possible you'll click really, really well with someone much older, and want to settle down with her (rather than just have a casual affair with her).

Rather than making an age difference (or any other quality) the entire point of a relationship, just focus on enjoying the person and the relationship...regardless of what ages you are. Age is only one part of what makes a person who they are, and chemistry is a mysterious thing. Learn to enjoy the whole person and appreciate what the relationship offers, whether it's a one-night thing or a lifelong marriage.

Of course, this is all random advice from a Star Wars Internet board...so take or leave it with a grain of salt. Hope it all works out for you.

 

This one is wise beyond her years. Take what she says to heart. She knows what she is talking about.

 

my plan is to have sex with a girl from age 18 upwards until 40 then to come back down again and finish at 18. i will have sex with one girl each week beginning next week. this way i can develop a true understanding of women as i climb my way through the advancing ages. some may say i am being overly calculated, optimistic and slightly odd but i don't see the problem lol

 

You just made sex sound monotonous.. how do you plan to rectify this?

 

I've been with four older women.

The best sex I ever had, to be honest. They knew how to handle themselves, unlike the last girl I slept with, who was a virgin. One frustration after another there.

So, good luck with the older women. It's fun, believe me

 

who me?

s&m, role play, bondage, public spaces. hmm, that's only 4. maybe i will combine a few.

 

Agreed, the best I ever had was with a 32 year old. I was 16.



I was then (understandably) beaten up quite badly by her husband.



She taught me a lot and I like to think i am now capable and the current Mrs Burt has given me no complaint recently.



All i would suggest is make sure she's not married. I didn't and it hurt when I found out she was.