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Were you disappointed that Rey and Finn's relationship never became anything romantic?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    Aesthetically, it seems to me that what they were going for with Adam and Kylo Ren was very much a kind of anime type villain. Like Vicious from Cowboy BeBop or Uchiha Madara from Naruto, something like that. Even the name Kylo Ren is very anime.
     
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  2. QUIGONMIKE

    QUIGONMIKE Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    Oh I Love Adam. Like I said, easily the best performance of the sequels. Not even close. And yes, tastes are subjective. Nothing in ANY of these movies is the fault of the performers. Its on the writing & creative teams. Usually is! ;)
     
  3. zackm

    zackm Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I was not disappointed that Rey and Finn did not become romantic. I was disappointed that Rey and Ben did become romantic.
     
  4. dagenspear

    dagenspear Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    Where was the last couple posts criticizing Adam Driver?
     
  5. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Master star 4

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    The entire forum is littered with them, sadly.
    @zackm - but did they?
    They shared a kiss which LF and novel author Rae Carson both said was a kiss of gratitude. When you look back on the entire ST any 'romance' was one sided. I'm pretty sure Ben Solo loved Rey, but I don't for one minute think she reciprocated those feelings. She went to the Supremacy in TLJ to get him to win the war for the Resistance, not to save him from the dark side, as Luke went to save his dad. She healed him on the Death Star because she was afraid that killing him would turn her to the dark side. She did not mourn his death. At the end of the novel it's stated that she 'would have liked to have got to know him', rather than that she grieved for him.

    The only time we got a hint of a 'romance' between two characters was Finn/Rose in TLJ. Which was thoroughly quashed by Abrams in TROS.

    There was zero romance in the ST. Rey did not need a boyfriend.
     
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  6. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    Hurrah. Somebody else who spots it. You are correct, the sequel trilogy is indeed devoid of romance. This idea that Rey 'fixes' Kylo via romance is an interpretation which doesn't really stack up to me.
     
  7. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    The actual full quote from Rae Carson's book describing the kiss is:

    "His heart was full as Rey reached for his face, let her fingers linger against his cheek. And then, wonder of wonders, she leaned forward and kissed him. A kiss of gratitude, acknowledgement of their connection, celebration that they'd found each other at last." (pg.238)

    His heart was full. Her fingers lingered on his cheek. Wonder of wonders. Acknowledgment of their connection. Celebration that they'd found each other at last.

    All reads in romantic terms to me.

    In fact, I couldn't read it another way.

    Especially seeing on screen the scene it is meant to describe.
     
  8. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    To me, that does indeed describe a profound connection of two people who find each other, but if it is supposed to be romantic, it skirts around the usual things you might expect to read. It's all very aloof.

    'Gratitude and acknowledgment' are quite "cold" descriptions to describe two people who kiss who are in love or have romantic feelings for each other. You would expect to actually read words like "love" and "passion" etc

    Also, she doesn't mourn him, or show any kind of sadness when he dies / disappears.

    The kiss was a real odd move on JJ Abrams' part. A simple nod of gratitude or relief or acknowledgment would have worked better, and would have been in keeping with the rest of their dynamic.
     
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  9. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    The passage doesn't read as aloof to me. It reads more in a sense of mounting emotion and passion. It doesn't outright use the words "love" and "passion" but many times when a romantic scene is described, authors don't do that. They try to be more poetic and leave some things to implication and imagination. And "found each other at last" I read a lot in the romantic context of a kiss. Also, throughout the book, Rey and Kylo's dynamic read to me in very YA romance type terms.

    And the kiss on screen that we see it describing is not a quick peck on the cheek. It is a deep one on the lips. Not the sort of kiss woman routinely give out of pure gratitude alone. Certainly in many Disney films we won't see two characters we are meant to believe lived happily ever after and got married share such a deep kiss.

    If I saw that on screen kiss between any other two characters and read that description of a kiss between any other two characters in any other novel, I'd say, "Yep, that's romantic. No question."

    To me, indeed, if the kiss is meant to be seen and read as pure gratitude untinged by nothing romantic, both JJ and Carson failed as creators, because to me, the movie scene and the novel both are filmed and written in romantic terms.
     
  10. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    It feels like two separate ideas pitching against one another. I've said it before about Rey in that she appears to have been written as a very unromantic / non-sexual character, without a hint of romantic appeal.
     
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  11. Vympel

    Vympel Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    Rae Carson has joked about the 'kiss of gratitude' thing on twitter. The obvious implication was that yes, its romantic, and the focus by some on 'kiss of gratitude' devoid of its surrounding context was misconceived.



    (and of course it is, the kiss is clearly romantic and is intended to be. It's plain as day in the performance and the direction)

    Also, it should not at all be controversial that Kylo and Rey's interactions in TLJ have a clear romantic subtext, and this was quite intentional on the part of Johnson (see: the deleted scene where Luke tells Rey she's opening herself to the dark side "over a pair of pretty eyes [Kylo's eyes]") - Abrams clearly picked up on it and carried it forward. People (especially much-maligned shippers) didn't imagine it or invent something that wasn't there in TLJ.
     
  12. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Master star 4

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    I....think the kiss was a sop to reylos, 'look, he's kissed the girl, are you satisfied now?'

    And ironically....we weren't. I am a Ben/Kylo fan more than a reylo fan, but almost every die hard reylo I know would have preferred a live Ben to the kiss any day. Including me.
     
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  13. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    I think a large part of the problem is that there wasn't a consistent depiction of Rey throughout the ST and that there seemed to be a lot of different ideas about how Rey should end up that I think get varying degrees of support in the films and all make it so that there isn't one, single convincing arc or narrative around Rey.

    TFA to me did seem to have elements that pointed to a potential future relationship between Rey and Finn. Certainly more so than elements that pointed to a potential relationship between Rey and Kylo. I didn't think that Rey had to end up with Finn after seeing TFA, but I thought it was most likely that she would end up with him if she ended up with anyone, and my brother felt the same way after seeing TFA in theaters.

    TLJ to me did have scenes like the finger-touching one that Rian to me obviously meant to have a romantic and sexual subtext. While also reportedly including the conversation between Rey and Poe as a favor to Colin who was initially meant to be directing the third film and by all accounts wanted Rey and Poe together romantically. So, TLJ definitely had enough romantic and sexual subtext to engage the hopes of Rey/Kylo fans but also included something that might have been meant to hint at a romance between Rey and Poe that Colin would've wanted to develop in the final film if he had been allowed to direct it.

    Then TROS comes along Rey and Kylo share a very deep kiss that to me can only be seen as romantic, but Kylo also dies and Rey basically ends the film alone on the Tatooine desert with only the Force ghosts of Luke and Leia for company. So, in a sense, it could be said that Rey doesn't end the films in a romantic relationship with anyone but just single, by herself, strong and independent. Or at least I think that is probably what TROS was going for in the last scene.

    It seems to me there wasn't a lot of clarity in terms of whether Rey should end up with Finn, with Kylo, with Poe, or in a romance with nobody and single at the conclusion of the ST, which I think ultimately did a disservice to Rey's character and the development of her relationships with other characters.

    That's why I think a lot of different fans with many different perspectives were disappointed. Rey/Kylo fans wanted more than the kiss before Kylo died. Rey/Poe fans are probably sad that Colin didn't direct the third film and give them the romance between Rey and Poe they'd have wanted. People like myself who would have been totally happy with a single Rey are still likely disappointed that she gave Kylo a big old smooch before he died. And most relevantly for this thread, many Rey/Finn fans are going to be deeply disappointed that not only did Rey not end up with Finn, but she gave Kylo that big kiss on the lips.
     
  14. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    Yeah it feels like a "Pander to all, please none" type situation that they ended up in.
     
  15. zackm

    zackm Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I agree with everything you've noted and I agree that the romance was one sided...up until the kiss. Frankly, I don't buy the "kiss of gratitude" bit. The visual cues in that scene say otherwise.
     
  16. FromDromundKaasWithLove

    FromDromundKaasWithLove Jedi Master star 3

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    She did reciprocate them.

    According to Rian Johnson:
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    "Je voulais qu'on reste du point de vue de la jeune femme: je souhaitais qu'on puisse croire á cette romance."

    "I wanted us to stay in the young woman's point of view: I wanted us to believe in this romance."

    Source: French magazine "Classica" and Google Translate


    According to Sariah Wilson, he also confirmed that he saw them as a romance (and, as far as I know, he hasn't challenged that statement)

    She also let her hair down and put on a bit of make-up when she mailed herself to the Supremacy. The film also failed to provide a motive for her to spare Kylo Ren in spite of that action being in direct contradiction to what was suppose to her reason for going to him in the first place.

    An argument could be made that, after all the awful stuff he'd put her through, Rey's feelings for Kylo Ren died a quick death but the kiss at the end of the Rise of Skywalker contradicts that, especially considering that "platonic gratitude" is rarely, if ever, expressed through a kiss on the lips in real-life and the Sequel Trilogy never bothered to establish that a lip kiss could have this meaning in-universe; a kiss on the lips has, to my knowledge, only ever been used as an expression of romance: Anakin and Padme, Leia and Han, and even Leia kissing Luke was her pretending to be interested in him to annoy Han.

    The novelization is Disney's way of trying to walk back on the romance.
     
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  17. godisawesome

    godisawesome Skywalker Saga Undersheriff star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    “Aesthetics” is the key word here, to me, at least post-TFA. I think if you combined the aesthetics fo maskless Kylo Ren in particular with the family heritage, and you have the “EasyBake recipe” that LFL (and Rian Johnson) believed they had on their hands. He was a long haired broody pretty boy from the Skywalker family - what else was there to discuss?

    ...Well, there was the actual substance of his characterization and portrayal in TFA to discuss, that’s what. And I think that's one of the reasons why it’s clear that Abrams meant for the scar on Kylo’s face to be disfiguring, and why he’d directed Driver and written a script in such a way where Kylo was more loathsome without his helmet than he was with it.

    I think the Vicious comparison is a good one, though I wording argue an interesting difference between the two approaches to Kylo if we start using other anime references - namely, that Abrams wasn’t aiming for an Uchiha like Johnson and LFL wanted, but more of a Sephiroth. He’s an insane villain without many redeeming qualities, instead of a complex, brooding ambiguous anti-hero.

    To use more Western cartoon comparisons, he was meant to be more Princess Azula than Prince Zuko. But LFL wanted Zuko.
    I think the difference is that Rey was defined more by TFA, where she was set-up to be written in a more “traditional” main hero way... including some traits that were traditionally more associated with male characters. She’s not set-up to be a “love interest” pursuing the male lead; she’s set up to be the person the love-interest pursues, if at all. She’s more in the Captain America, Batman, or Wonder Woman, Captain Marvel role, where if there’s an attraction she expresses towards her love interest, it’s secondary to her main purpose and appeal.

    In that “formula,” Finn is the only real romantic possibility, but an optional one. He’s designed it take a back seat to her story whenever they share scenes, and to complement her story rather than override it. While he is *an* attraction for the story in the audience’s eyes, he’s not *the* attraction.

    It’s also one of the many reasons why there’s a struggle with her association with Kylo to make it believable. Even if you ignore how horrifyingly ugly Kylo’s personality and mind is... the way TLJ is trying to write Rey and Kylo is more “traditionally” male-focused - Rey is treated more as the Romantic Interest rather than the Main Character. It's the difference between Rey being written like Katniss Everdeen, and trying to write her like Bella Swan - a character designed to have her POV dominate the story is overwritten by a desire to fixate the audience’s POV on Kylo the way the creators’ is.

    It doesn’t work. Unless, of course, you just ignore Rey’s defining characteristics, which is what TLJ does and what TROS had to deal with whenever Rey and Kylo were on screen together and not trying to just kill each other.
     
  18. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Master star 4

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    That I do agree with.
    They wanted to please TLJ haters, therefore spent so much of TROS retconning it they forgot to tell a proper story. They gave reylos 'the kiss' to make up for both regressing Kylo's character and killing him off. They killed him off to please his haters. They made Finn force sensitive to please his fans. They turned Luke into a 'noble' Jedi again after the disillusioned man he was in TLJ to please Luke fans.

    But...I think the people they did their best to please.....were themselves. Terrio was a HUGE Luke/Leia shipper as a kid, so he put them together as a FG couple in TROS. Whereas to Lucas the Skywalker saga was really Anakin's story, to Terrio the 'original sin' was his children being separated at birth, despite them both having relatively happy, if very different, childhoods. For JJ it was all about Rey. He wanted Rey to be the 'everything', so he put her front and centre to such a degree in TROS just about every other character faded into the background.
    It's interesting but a lot of Finn fans were disappointed that his character was given a 'red herring' in TFA when he was shown with a lightsabre, but the actual Force sensitive was Rey. He did exactly the same with Kylo fans and TROS. The title, plus playing a 'triumphant' version of Kylo's theme in the trailer background music, led many Kylo fans think that he would ultimately be redeemed, destroy Palpatine and 'rise'. But the Skywalker who rose was of course.....Rey. And Kylo had nothing to do with Palpatine's destruction, once again.....all Rey. Apparently Kylo was originally intended to disappear down the pit, never to be seen again, but his popularity with those on the SW poll led to a few hasty re shoots, hence his absence as a FG at the end with his mother and uncle.
    Ultimately what the entire aim of the ST was to erase the Skywalkers and replace them with new characters. Why JJ chose to give the name to Rey is as big a mystery to me as him choosing to make her a Palpatine. Because the message of the entire saga is...the bad guy wins. His bloodline lives on, the heroes' doesn't. It's like an inverted version of The Stand, only ALL the heroes perish and Randall Flagg's child inherits the earth.
     
  19. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    TROs retcons TLJ, only so much as TLJ retconned TFA.

    And I honestly couldn't have cared less that Kylo faded away peacefully. It was a hollow ending. In fact, that's the worst way he could have gone. After getting a kiss from his girlfriend who spends almost the entire movie/trilogy trying to murder. There's no punishment for him. No pain. No penance. His 'redemption' feels more empty than even Vaders. And they were trying to copy/beat that. I don't even think he says sorry to Rey. He's just a mute character at that point.
     
  20. Lobot's Wig

    Lobot's Wig Jedi Knight star 4

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    Good shout on Sephiroth. I keep thinking that an Asian actor in this mould would make for an awesome Star Wars villain. Somebody like Power Rangers actor Yoshi Sudarso maybe?

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  21. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Master star 4

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    I actually didn't think TLJ 'retconned' TFA.
    There were a lot of loose ends left behind. Biggest was why had Luke chosen to exile himself, why did he blame himself ( Han's words), why hadn't he been in touch with his sister. RJ tried to come up with a valid reason and he did.
    Regarding Kylo....wow. What sort of punishment would YOU have decided for him?(by the way Rey spent most of the trilogy trying to murder HIM - and in TROS actually succeeded, to quote Jack Sparrow!):p
     
  22. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    Luke left a map in TFA, to the most unfindable place in the galaxy to not be found in TLJ? That's not a retcon?
    The FO are last seen escaping for their lives in TFA, but now they 'reign' in TLJ
    The Resistance won in TFA, but now there's none of them left and are fleeing for their lives in TLJ. (This worked in ESB, because the Empire still ran the galaxy despite losing their DS. The FO is supposed to be small here. A remnant. But nah, they reign)

    There are others too.

    And Rey isn't out to murder Kylo. She's out to defend herself. That's a big difference. She's allowed to do that.

    What I'd expect for Kylo is the punishment fitting the crime.

    Vader was at least remorseful at the end. He asked to see Luke with his own eyes, not the mechanical evil ones. He wanted to see the truth. The light. He knew that as soon as he lifted the Emperor up, it was a death sentence. He did it anyway.

    Kylo becomes Ben, and then has nothing more to say for himself. I don't really see his last act as purposefully sacrificial. It's just accidentally sacrificial. I don't see Ben remorseful. I don't see him say sorry to Rey. Or "I was wrong". Instead, he gets his kiss. For being a 'good' boyfriend. And then he makes Rey alive again, yet it kills him for doing it. And that's not even getting into that this come back to life power business is inherently ... un Jedi like. The writers fail to understand that Anakin wanting to save his loved ones from dying is a bad thing. It's a bad power. The Jedi are supposed to be willing to let go of life. That's how you have healthy attachments. You realize that death is a part of things. You don't hang on to it, unnaturally. That they are luminous beings. Not this crude matter that dies. Lol. They didn't even get this one little thing right. And it's obvious.

    So maybe something along the lines of, a life time of making things right. Journey around the galaxy trying to fix his wrongs. Lifetime exile on Ahch-to learning who Ben really is. Maybe having his connection to the Force turned off somehow - making him 'mortal' and 'weak' like his father. (And still make him act heroically afterwards) And maybe even death, but one based off a sacrificial act, and one where Ben literally says something close to an apology for being an evil psycho.

    Instead they proved just how uncreative they are. And copied the 2 minute Vader redemption as best they could.
     
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  23. FromDromundKaasWithLove

    FromDromundKaasWithLove Jedi Master star 3

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    Implying he didn't repeatedly try to murder her?

    In the Force Awakens, he aims for her head during the fight in the forest.

    In the Last Jedi, he orders his men to blow her out of the sky and outright tells Luke that he'll destroy her (and this takes place after she chose to spare his life, which he knew she'd done)
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    In the Rise of Skywalker, he tries to run her over with his TIE fighter and later, he goes for her head on the Death Star.
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  24. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    Look at that murderer. And the other poor dude who's just trying to defend himself from her and rule the galaxy. Why must she unfairly attack him like this.
     
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  25. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Master star 4

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    Rey defending herself....against an unarmed man. Who earlier could have killed her....but didn't.

    Nice little Jedi, isn't she?