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ST Kylo Ren/Adam Driver Discussion Thread

Discussion in 'Sequel Trilogy' started by Pro Scoundrel , Jan 3, 2020.

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  1. K2771991

    K2771991 Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Opinion peices and blogs aren't "the media."

    And woopdy do. A minority of fan lumped all critism of the film in with the toxic haters (who did and still do exist and are a problem), so what? That means about as much as the other minority of fans who arbitrarly decided it was objectivly a bad film just becuase they did'nt like it.

    It depends on where you look - if one were so inclined it would be fairly easy to hope on the wayback machine and find plenty of articles and blogs that treat the PT films as if their a holy cow. It's all a matter of what bais the site posting the article holds and whose blog your on.

    I certianly remember a great many peaple online ripping TLJ (and all the other Disney era Star Wars works) to shreads in opinion peices and blog posts, so it definantly was'nt all sunshine and roses as your suggesting. In fact that's still a fairly common thing today, as is seeing opinions online that both lionize and hate on the PT.

    You missed the point of what I was saying - when I said "that's like saying Luke replaced Vader" I was saying "Rey spent the movies as one of the heroes, and Kylo spent them as the villian and happened to find redemption at the end."

    Rey did'nt "replace" Kylo becuase their was never anything to replace - if she had replaced him then she would have fallen to the Dark Side, taken over the First Order and become the new villian, not remained a Light Side hero and reformed the Jedi.

    Boo hoo. Ben Solo was born into a comfortable life with a family who loved him and got to go to what was essentially a private school, then chose to spend years willingly chit-chating with Snoke rather then tell anyone and then chose of his own accord to join him and the Knights of Ren rather then go to his mother or father for help.

    If Kylo was miserable, his misery was self-inflicted.

    He did atone - he helped defeat Palpatine, the First/Final Order and the Sith and revived Rey, ensuring the Jedi survived.

    He lives and the best-case senario is he surrenders himself for judgement and they decide to let him spend the rest of his life in prison rather then execute him. He died and - like Vader before him - he gets too ascend to immortality, gains immense power, gets to be with his mother and uncle (and actually get to know his grandfather, rather then the fake version Palpatine pretended to be) and can still talk to Rey any time he wants.

    I'm not really seeing how this is the downside for him. Honestly it seems like he got far, far more then he realisticly deserved.

    Funny, becuase that's not what it is from how I look at it[face_thinking]

    Oh, so Rey's not allowed to be happy? She has to be sad and mourning Ben Solo 24/7?

    And Kylo got a big, wet kiss. Seems like he got more then Vader did at the end, to be honest.

    God forbid the entire francise revolve around one family forever, right?

    I'll be blunt, I'd rather have Rey not take any name at all then take the name Skywalker, so then we could move on into something entirely fresh going forward.

    Once Upon A Time is'nt Star Wars, so really there's no point in comparing them - just because one had villians get a happy ending does'nt mean the other has to.

    Nothing changed, Disney does'nt just make family films where all the characters get a happy ending.

    Villians can have sympathic qualities, you know that right?
     
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  2. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    It's funny but I I can't watch TROS in it's entirety again, I keep thinking to myself that I should have realised that the version we got of Rey in it..... would never have a relationship with Ben Solo. Whereas Belle loved the Beast when he was a monster, Rey would only have accepted the Prince.

    "She would have liked to know Ben Solo, but could never love Kylo Ren."

    Yet.....he still accepted the judgemental little oink even after knowing her grandfather was 100 times worse than his ever was.
     
  3. FromDromundKaasWithLove

    FromDromundKaasWithLove Jedi Master star 3

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    I dearly hope that's suppose to be a joke.
     
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  4. Alliyah Skywalker

    Alliyah Skywalker Force Ghost star 5

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    I can`t stand Rey and as a character type in fiction I find her worse than Kylo Ren. However, he is much, much worse as a person than she was, how evil their respective grandfathers were has nothing to do with that. Or else all the people who suddenly shunned Leia over who her father was - as if she could help that - would be in the right. Nor was either Kylo nor Ben Solo entitled to her love.
     
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  5. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Yeah, Rey was not enough of a “judgmental little oink,” although I prefer the terminology “having standards for how one allows oneself to be treated by other people.” And a thought process of “my grandfather was evil so I deserve to be verbally and physically mistreated” would make that worse, especially if the ST tried to sell us on the idea that we are supposed to agree with that, as opposed to being sad that someone has such low self-esteem.
     
  6. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    I don't see in black and white.
    This, to me, comes back to Beauty and the Beast.

    I'm referring to Disney's animated version by the way, not the live action remake.
    At the beginning, it's said that the Prince was spoiled, selfish and unkind. This is how Rey, who was forced to bring herself up, saw Kylo. She would have happily exchanged her life for his....but she had no idea that his life hadn't been as wonderful as she believed. His parents were afraid of him. Every normal childish tantrum would seem to them like the Dark manifesting in him. His mother was devoted to her career. His father was devoted to the Millennium Falcon! Neither of them knew how to handle him, so they sent him away. And a Jedi academy is not a school. It's a place for novice nuns/monks. You don't have holidays, you are encouraged to forget your family. It's a lifetime commitment which Ben Solo's family made for him. Add to Snoke's presence permanently in his head, and you have one ****** up kid.

    The Beast in BATB was physically hideous. Belle had to learn to see the unhappy boy behind the monster. And the Beast had to learn to be kinder, more unselfish. Kylo, even with his scar, was handsome. His ugliness lay in his deeds, the murder of his father, his association with the FO. Kylo Ren was the shield the broken, vulnerable Ben Solo wore around him, just as the Beast's ugliness concealed a loving and caring man. When Belle started to see beyond the face she triggered the transformation back in to the Prince. In TLJ Rey saw Ben Solo behind the ugliness of Kylo Ren's actions. Unfortunately it went pear shaped at the end, because both made mistakes - but their feelings for each other had begun.

    Rey wasn't a saint. It's one of the reasons I liked her so much in TFA and TLJ. She tended to see in extremes. And she was too quick to latch on to father figures. She knew Han Solo for give minutes, yet mourned him as if he was her father. Han would not have gone to Starkiller to save Rey. He didn't go to Starkiller to save Rey. He went to destroy the shielding system. It was Finn who went to save Rey, and who refused to leave without her. If not for Finn, she could very well have died on Starkiller.

    Rey attacked Finn when she first met him, over a jacket a droid said was stolen. She took a creepy pleasure in not only beating Kylo on Starkiller but tormenting him. Watch how she stalks him like a predator stalking it's prey. It's exactly how Anakin, consumed by the dark, did it to Obi Wan. And, before any body tells me you couldn't blame her.....I didn't. Someone like Yoda however, would have. Jedi do not do that. Darksiders do. She enjoyed blowing up TIE pilots on Crait 'im really getting the hang of this now' - despite them being stolen brainwashed children like Finn.
    Rey was HUMAN. Look at her costumes in TFA and TLJ. She wore shades of grey and beige. None of us are totally evil or totally good. In the ROTJ novelisation, Luke realises that at the end - he didn't despise even Palpatine, but the dark in him. And in himself.
    The relationship between Rey and Kylo was meant to be based on acceptance. That was why they had a falling out at the end of TLJ, because he wouldn't accept that she had friends she loved amongst people he saw as terrorists. And because she reacted, as she always did, with violence.
    Rey was reimagined into an unforgiving creature of perfection in TROS. Hence her pure white costume.
    That wasn't the Rey I loved from TFA and TLJ.
     
  7. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    We discussed Beauty and the Beast before in here. I don't think the two are comparable because the Beast did not kill anyone. And it is still a questionable love story. I did like the redemption story in TROS, but the romance angle always turned me off. But if others like it that's fine with me.
     
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  8. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    This. And attempting to demonize Han and Leia in order to try to Kylo’s behavior appear to not be his fault, usually backfires spectacularly here among those who are not already inclined to believe that Kylo’s behavior was Han and Leia’s fault. And the idea that a woman cannot be “devoted to her career” and still be a good mother is too antiquated to be worth considering.
     
  9. Alliyah Skywalker

    Alliyah Skywalker Force Ghost star 5

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    Your comparism would be much more apt for the live action version than for the animated one. Because in the animated one the prince is just a spoiled, unpleasant git as a human. No excuses. He absolutely deserves what he gets. His outside got transformed to match his inside. The beast didn`t "conceal a loving and caring man". He first had to grow into one because the prince certainly wasn`t that before he became the beast. The interaction with Belle triggered that transformation (and a couple of long years being off his spoiled high horse). If she had just made him transform back into the prince he was, she would have been left with a pretty jerk once more.

    By that comparism, Ben/Kylo didn`t get disfigured but his inside was never all that pretty and certainly nothing for Rey to see and coo over in TLJ.

    It is the live action remake that comes in with a more "he was a victimized, abused kid" narrative for the prince pre-Beast which is more in line how you describe Ben Solo.
     
  10. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    I agree that Rey showed signs of dark throughout, but due to Daisy's likeability and Disney I never thought they would go that route. @sian1965 brought up some interesting points I just did not agree with some.
     
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  11. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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  12. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    “They weren’t very good at being parents” is demonization. It doesn’t matter whether Abrams or anyone else said it.

    If Abrams himself is intent on demonizing Han and Leia in order to pretend that Kylo’s behavior is not Kylo’s fault, I am not required to play along.
     
  13. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    We watched ROTJ last night in a social forum. It is a great movie, but it is bittersweet to watch Luke grow as a Jedi, Leia soften with Han(sorry @anakinfansince1983) ha ha and Han become the man he did and then watch them all backtrack in the ST. Yes characters have setbacks but they really regressed. They found their way again but for all 3 to regress like that was too much. I doubt Lucas would have come at it with such cynicism. The Luke of ROTJ would not have pulled a saber on Ben.
     
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  14. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    Okay, fine.
    I actually loved Han and Leia, but they were flawed. Like me.
     
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  15. PendragonM

    PendragonM Force Ghost star 4

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    Well, I tried to stay away. I guess I need to put in another Godfather clip here:



    Wow. Where is all this in canon again? The idea that Luke's academy was like this? That Han and Leia were bad parents? IN CANON - a novel, comic or film.

    Because just because JJ said it, it's NOT CANON.

    This right here. For a guy who professes to love Han and says he's his favorite character, he sure hates him. Same with Kasdan. They like one sliver of Han - the guy he was at the start of ANH. That's it. They really should stop with their nonsense.

    And I really won't comment about how someone who says he loves the SW OT did what he did to those characters. Because a) I'm not a psychologist and b) I can't express my true feelings due to forum rules.
     
  16. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    Agreed Han going back to being a smuggler erases all his development in the OT. By the time he was frozen in carbonite he was a different guy.
     
  17. I Are The Internets

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    Well, obviously he died, and the frozen person is Haan.
     
  18. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    I remember a line from a film once - "young people are full of dreams. Older people are full of ****."

    We do get more cynical as we age, that's what I saw in Luke. And Han and Leia never stopped loving each other - but sometimes people love each other, but can't live with each other because they're too different.
    I liked Leia's last conversation with Han"No matter how often we fought, I hated to see you leave."
    They were passionate people, they fought a lot in the OT. Opposites attract.

    Regarding Lucas....I think he was a lot more cynical by the time he made the PT. The Jedi he'd created as such noble souls in the OT, came across as very different in the PT.
     
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  19. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    @sian1965 The thing is I think the Kylo we meet at the beginning of TFA is more than just portrayed as spoiled, selfish, and unkind. He's portrayed as the second in command of an evil regime (the First Order) that is terrorizing the galaxy. He's portrayed as someone who orders the slaughter of a village of innocents. That is far worse than merely being spoiled, selfish, and unkind.

    Ben's childhood growing up probably wasn't perfect. So is everyone else's childhood not perfect. That's life. His childhood still is substantially better than Rey's or Finn's for that matter, and Ben's feeling that he was "abandoned" by his parents does not match the reality of what happened to him and therefore doesn't deserve the same level of sympathy as Rey's actual experience of growing up on her own on Jakku or Finn's experience of being kidnapped as a child and raised in the brainwashing of the First Order. Even Hux's childhood of being brought up by an actually abusive father is more worthy of sympathy to me than Kylo being sent to train with his uncle.

    His parents were afraid when Ben showed Dark Side traits. That's not really something that makes me sympathize with Ben Solo. In fact, it makes him less sympathetic a character to me. Like I found it telling that none of Han, Luke, or Leia ever share a positive memory of Ben with one another or with Rey, and these are the people who should have experienced the most of Ben's positive qualities By contrast, Obi-Wan offers a positive recollection of Anakin Skywalker as a good friend, the best starfighter pilot in the galaxy, and a cunning warrior. That gives me a sense of the noble hero Anakin Skywalker was before his fall. At best, Ben just comes across as deeply troubled by comparison.

    We don't know that it was normal childhood temper tantrums that prompted Leia and Han to send Ben to train with Luke. My interpretation of the conversation between Han and Leia in TFA was that it was something worse and darker than standard childhood tantrums that led to Leia and Han sending Ben to train with Luke, and their decision to have Ben train with Luke made total sense to me. If they were worried about Ben's Dark Side tendencies, Luke, who had saved Vader from the Dark Side, would seem to be the best qualified to guide him in the right direction, and I'm sure that if Han and Leia hadn't sent Ben to train under Luke, they would've been accused by fans of doing nothing to try to stop his descent to the Dark Side. It's a classic case of "damned if they did and damned if they didn't" in my opinion.

    Leia is devoted to her career, but in Last Shot, for example, she is also a loving mother and wife. Women are indeed able to have careers and also be loving mothers and wives. The idea that they cannot is best left in 1950's Earth rather than taken to a galaxy that in many ways seems to be more advanced than our own. To the extent that the creators of the ST embraced this philosophy, I would find the ST offensive and backward. And honestly with the number of children in today's world who are brought up by working mothers as the social norm, it really strikes me as bizarre that the audience would be expected to find Kylo a sympathetic character because his mother dared to have a career outside the home. Like that would've been out of touch in the 1990's when I was growing up, but now that we are well into the twenty-first century, that would be simply stunning in its tone-deafness. :oops:

    Han being attached to the Millennium Falcon doesn't preclude him from being a loving or caring father to Ben either. My own father was very attached to his car, but he still loved me more. In Last Shot, Han is much more loving toward Ben than he is attached to the Millennium Falcon.

    Ben would've been free to leave Jedi training when he reached adulthood same as a student can be free to leave school upon reaching adulthood. We see in TROS that Leia herself chose to leave Jedi training so it doesn't have to be a lifetime commitment if Ben doesn't want it to be. Also, if I'm supposed to sympathize with Ben for being sent off to Jedi training, I then have to also believe that characters like Obi-Wan and Qui-Gon were victimized in the same way, yet very few people expect me to pity these characters. Perhaps because neither of them chose to fall to the Dark Side and terrorize a galaxy and I guess that makes them less sympathetic. I don't know. [face_dunno]

    I also will say that I didn't find Rey to be unsympathetic or unforgiving of Kylo in TROS. In fact, she was to me quite forgiving and sympathetic of him. She believed Kylo could be redeemed in the end, so to me that was quite sympathetic and forgiving in itself. If anything, I thought she came across as a sort of angel in mercy toward Kylo hence her being in white.
     
  20. ScreamingWoman2019

    ScreamingWoman2019 Jedi Master star 4

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    This thing about Han and Leia being bad parents is not in the film.

    They -and Luke- were ensnared into behaving towards Ben in a way that could be misinterpreted by Ben, who was manipulated in his turn into misinterpreting it in precisely that way. Too much Vader in him was also true for that moment in the hut, and Luke was caught off guard; and so was Leia.

    Then Snoke was caught off guard.

    All of them behaved as someone else had foreseen. Ben and his parents had to be separated, and then Ben and Luke. Then Snoke had to go. Kylo would have been next, and then Rey, through possession.

    'He was deceived by a lie, we all were'
     
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  21. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    I think Kylo/Ben is a character people either love or despise - rather like TLJ he's split the fandom..

    I love the character. I see him as a broken, vulnerable child inside a man, an abuse victim, someone who honestly doesn't really know what he wants, but desperately wants to be understood.
    I identify with him because he was coded as a mentally ill abuse victim, and I have mental health problems myself.
    I love the OT cast, but I don't see them as being 'disrespected' by being shown as human beings who made mistakes. I know many admirable women who've been great mums but also have great careers.

    But I also know people whose lives revolved around their careers, and although they loved their children, they weren't there for them. Quite a few famous people had difficult relationships with their children - the late Henry Fonda was one example.

    Other people however, do not and never will see Kylo Ren as anything other than a monster, a patricide, an abuser of women.
    We'll never change each others opinions of course - and we shouldn't - but just as many posters here have the right to denounce him, we who love the character have the same need to defend him.
    On this, we must agree to disagree.
     
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  22. devilinthedetails

    devilinthedetails Fiendish Fanfic & SWTV Manager, Tech Admin star 6 Staff Member Administrator

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    @sian1965 I can only really speak for myself and my own attitude toward Kylo/Ben. To be honest, I neither love nor hate him as Kylo or as Ben. I could be intrigued by Ben's backstory and wonder why he fell to the Dark Side, though I did find that under explored in the ST, which does to me, make him a less sympathetic character than one like Anakin Skywalker for whom I got the entire PT to elaborate on his tragic fall to the Dark Side. I could sympathize with him to the extent that I believe it is implied that he is emotionally and psychologically abused and manipulated by Snoke/Palpatine (though, I will note that this is largely a matter of inference rather than what we are shown in the movies, whereas Kylo's abuse of Rey is actually shown in the movies and often dismissed by those who advocate seeing Kylo as sympathetic or as a victim, which doesn't work for me, because if I'm meant to sympathize with Kylo for what he suffered from Snoke/Palpatine, I must also be expected to sympathize with Rey for what she suffered from Kylo).

    I could relate to him in the moments that he actually seemed to feel some love or connection to his parents like when he didn't fire on Leia in TLJ and his interaction with Han's memory/ghost on the Death Star ruins. I could buy into his redemption when he actually seemed to feel remorse for what he had done and want to make things right on the Death Star ruins. Moments where I can glimpse his connection to his parents, when I believe he feels remorse for the wrongs he has committed, and when he seems resolved to atone for the wrongs he has committed are his most sympathetic and redeemable to me.

    I don't see him as a broken child because he is an adult. I don't see him as vulnerable since he is a high-ranking member of an evil regime prior to becoming the actual head honcho of said evil regime. I'm willing to see him as a victim of abuse from Snoke/Palpatine, but not as a victim of any sort of abuse or neglect from his parents. So, I will push back against any narrative that would blame Han and Leia for their son falling to the Dark Side.

    I think the ST would have been wiser to explore the manipulations of Snoke/Palpatine with regard to Ben more (maybe have flashbacks to Snoke/Palpatine tempting Ben to the Dark Side rather than to Luke standing over Ben with a lightsaber) and to include more instances of Han, Luke, and Leia remembering positive experiences with Ben or admirable traits that he had. They could share these memories with each other as well as with Rey. This would've made Ben/Kylo are more sympathetic character to me and would have done more to develop the sense of connection Ben had with Han and Leia. It also would've helped explain more why Rey would see something redeemable in Kylo and also would've explored Ben's fall to the Dark Side in more depth.
     
  23. CloneBlooper

    CloneBlooper Jedi Grand Master star 2

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    He’s arguably the most interesting character in the whole franchise. Betsy quoting Kris Kristofferson’s “He's a prophet and a pusher, partly truth, partly fiction a walking contradiction“ lyric to describe Travis Bickle could, in a somewhat looser fashion, be applied to Kylo Ren/Ben.

    He’s certainly in that mold. Travis Bickle, Ethan Edwards, and Kylo are all variations on a theme. The intimacy afforded by the narrative that’s presented in both Taxi Driver and The Searchers helps us to get a fairly cohesive grasp of the intricacies of their respective lead’s character by rarely shifting focus from them. Unfortunately Kylo doesn’t get this luxury. And nor should he. Nobody goes to a see a Star Wars film with the expectations of seeing a 2 hour character study. We want spaceships and Wookies and lots of pew pews.

    Nevertheless over the course of 3 films I believe they served up a character that was suitably complex enough to keep my interest. He’s the only principal character across the entire saga where my attitude towards them shifted as the story progressed. Adam did a fine job in his portrayal, and Kylo Ren is a fine addition to not just the Star Wars saga but to cinema in general.
     
  24. sian1965

    sian1965 Jedi Knight star 4

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    I'm in the minority, but I wanted a bit more than pew pews!
     
  25. CloneBlooper

    CloneBlooper Jedi Grand Master star 2

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    Booom, kkkblaamo, whooossh, zzzp, zzzzappp.

    There you go. Just for you. Take them, cherish them.
     
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